Online Offerings


Video Conferencing or Self-Paced


Mindful Compassionate Dialogue: An At-Home Course for Couples


Pre-Recorded Courses

 Video Conferencing or Self-Paced Courses

Want the feel of an in-person course, but aren’t local? Check out our Video Conferencing or Self-Paced courses. The Video Conference attendees participate over Zoom Video Conferencing system, where they are able to see and interact with LaShelle, as well as other participants. Self-Paced attendees watch the video recording of the Video Conference session (participant questions can be heard through audio, but only LaShelle is on the video recording). Both Video Conference and Self-Paced attendees have access to an online discussion forum where they can answer a weekly discussion prompt related to that week’s session. Both also have access to getting paired with an “Empathy Buddy.” This is a unique opportunity to interact with folks from all over the world!

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Attachment Theory And Relationship Skills - Eight Week Series Beginning March 29, 2019 (Self-Paced)

This series will help you understand how the psychological system of attachment impacts your relationships and how you can take action to cultivate relationship skills that build emotional security in personal relationships.

This course has already started, but you may join up to two weeks from the start date.

LaShelle, I appreciate how connected you are to your source, how gentle you are with the people you work with and how succinct your observations and suggestions are. You are truly walking YOUR path. It is inspiring to witness and amazing to be the recipient of your gifts and talents.
— Student

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Empathic Listening - Eight Week Series Beginning July 26, 2019 (Video Conferencing Or Self-Paced)

This series will give you an opportunity to learn to listen from the heart. You will learn to connect to another's experience without losing yourself. 

Thank you for the deep insight, kindness, and encouragement you offer so freely. This is hard work, but you provide a gentle holding space that makes it possible. I think you are providing an invaluable service to our community and to the world!
— Student

Mindful Compassionate Dialogue:
At At-Home Course for Couples  

This 28 week course is for couples who are committed to cultivating a conscious, thriving relationship. Each week, you are asked to set aside 60-90 minutes for simple, yet powerful, experiential learning exercises with your partner. Whether you have been together many years, or are just starting out, this course can help you master relationship competencies that will serve you for a lifetime. Sign up for each Part as you go, or save by signing up for the entire course.

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Part 1: Communication Basics for Couples

This introductory 7-week course is for couples who value authenticity, connection, self-responsibility, and mindfulness. Whether you have been together many years or are just starting out, this course can enrich and support your relationship.

Connection and new insight with one another brought more intimacy and love.
— Couple

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Part 2: Self Empathy and Reactivity for Couples

Part 2 of this course builds upon the basics you learned in the introduction to Mindful Compassionate Dialogue and helps you gain understanding and skill at the next level of complexity. Part 2 is for couples who are ready learn skills in self empathy, and how to recognize and manage reactivity both individually and together.

Working with my partner to understand how to communicate when they are experiencing reactivity improved our ability to connect even when we are in a reactive state.
— Couple

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Part 3: Thriving Together for Couples

Part 3 of this course asks you to make use of the skills you learned in Parts 1 and 2 to enter into complex relationship dynamics regarding needs based negotiation, setting life serving boundaries, and building thriving and resiliency.

It was a helpful reminder of the benefit, for my well-being and for the well-being of our partnership, of being in touch with and savoring gratitude.
— Couple

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Part 4: Core Relationship Dynamics for Couples

Part 4 of this course addresses some of the most difficult and subtle aspects of relationship: relationship repair, emotional security, and healthy differentiation. You will be relieved to find these competencies broken down into specific and doable skills that you can practice and refine long term.

Practicing coming from a place of security and celebrating differentiation is already helping me in my relationship. I can see my reactivity and its causes more clearly, and feel more at choice in how I respond to the feelings that arise in me.
— Couple

Pre-Recorded Courses

These are Video Conferencing Courses that were recorded. You will be able to hear the questions and comments of participants that who took the course live and see LaShelle on video.

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 Life Serving Boundaries (Pre-Recorded)

Learning to set boundaries with yourself and others helps you create a life that is balanced and nourishing. Learn what Life Serving Boundaries are from the framework of Mindful Compassionate Dialogue.

I feel a deep appreciation for the presence, integrity, & skill that LaShelle offers and am so grateful to have experienced this work.
— Student

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Self-Empathy: Living from a Kind and Centered Place in Yourself (Pre-Recorded)

You might find it easier to be more compassionate with others than with yourself. You can even name other's needs before identifying your own. You would like to make peace with your inner critics and be able consider your own needs as much as do those of others. This course is for anyone who would like to live from a centered and confident place. 

Thank you for the deep insight, kindness, and encouragement you offer so freely. This is hard work, but you provide a gentle holding space that makes it possible. I think you are providing an invaluable service to our community and to the world!
— Student

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Transforming Reactivity I (Pre-Recorded)

You value conscious compassionate relationships yet find yourself getting caught in your own reactive patterns and those of others. You want freedom and healing around past pain that comes up and gets projected onto the present.  You would like to unhook yourself and stand up for for what you value and need as well as be present for others.  This course is for individuals.

I am continually impressed by LaShelle’s ability to go to the heart of an issue and speak with clarity and insight.
— Dee Packard (Portland, Oregon)